Love is sweet when you with the right person, yeah its true, but some ladies tend to rush things so faster than it should be, and they get hurt so fast in the process as well. Here are some mistakes you should try and correct in other to avoid some heartbreaks.
1. Abandon Their Friends.
Some Nigerian ladies do feel pompous when they’re in love.They cut off ties with their friends because they have a man taking care of them.If you choose to get lost in love and give up on friendships altogether that’s a decision that’s big silly mistake.
2. Go Crazy On Social Media
Nigerian ladies are so fond of this; they upload their guy pics on every of their social media account.Filling your feed with “ussies” could backfire if you’re rushing a connection that may not be built to last.Once you go public, there’s no turning back.
3. Blow Off All The Other Guys.
I’m not advocating dating multiple guys at the same time, cutting every other man you know, or was romantically linked to out of your life too soon may make for many awkward apologies later, especially if they’re friends worth having.
4. Rush The Parental Introduction/Visits.
When Nigerian ladies have a boyfriends, all they think of is doing the parental introduction or making a visit to his parents house.Rushing quality time with his parent before he’s ready can sometimes backfire big time.
5. Become Mrs Do All.
Just because they found new love doesn’t mean plans for vacations, luxury trips and couple dates should be made immediately.It’s great to do these things though but as long as you’re not trying to do them all back-to-back.
6. Make His Dreams More Important.
Yes, his hopes and dreams do matter, but not more than yours. You have to pursue your dreams also in order for both of you to have a smiling future. Remember you have to be happy before you can be one half of a happy couple.
7. Rush Into s*x
Love doesn’t have to mean s*x immediately.Speeding into s*x because you’re in love with him is a “rookie” love mistakes, s*x doesn’t mean love and vice versa.