All relationships are ups and downs, they always include moments of happiness and times of despair.
But when relationship ruins because of cheating, sometimes it is really hard to collect your broken pieces and keep on living.
Of course, time heals any wounds, but we have several faster and more effective ways of surviving the cheating.
1. MUST: Define the “red flags”
Now, when everything is over between you two, you can easily define those alarm signals that were present in the behavior of your ex that took procession of cheating or pointed at it.
This could be fierce protective position in answer to the most softball questions or even disappearing for a couple of days.
For you, the realization of some details to which you didn’t give much importance may become a real sudden clarification, as in reality they all had a hidden meaning. Well, it’s time to learn the lesson.
2. PROHIBITED: Pretend that nothing happened
Feelings will not go away in a single night, and you may even try to revive your relations. But you shouldn’t close your eyes on what has happened, as there are all changes that the story may repeat.
3. MUST: Find strength in yourself
It doesn’t matter whether you were dating for a few months or a few years: cheating hurts, and it hurts really hard. But this is your chance to find your inner pin and start shining like never before.
There is nothing more attractive than a woman who knows that she can feel fine even alone.
4. PROHIBITED: Count on your ex
If your ex were reliable for 100%, this situation wouldn’t have happened.
So, you shouldn’t rely on the person who not only lied to you but also neglected your trust. Besides, looking for comfort in someone who caused you pain is a real contradiction, isn’t it?
5. MUST: Prioritize time with close people and your own precious self
One of the best ways to distract from negative emotions is to do something pleasant for yourself. Think over what you would like to do right now. You may go shopping, make a party with friends, listen to your favorite band.
It is also important to spend time with close friends and relatives. They can help to look at the situation from another angle. Good laughing will also be useful.
6. PROHIBITED: Withdraw into your shell
This means that you should leave all these sad songs about love, heart-rending soap operas, tons of ice-cream and sweets in bed for the more fitting occasion.
This will only worsen the situation, and you risk to sink in the pity on yourself.