I cannot emphasize how much we wish men knew these things, even the best of men fail to understand some of our basic needs. These things are no big deal but life would be so much better if men knew them.
1. Hear us out
We understand that you guys have though job and it’s hard to be all charged up when you get home after a tiring day. The thing is we have been working all day long too and we love you and there is no one in the world we would rather talk too. Us, women, need to vent out so please, listen to what we have to say. It would mean so much to us.
2. Don’t pretend to listen
Don’t just pretend to listen to what we have to say. We talk to you because we trust you and sometimes we just need moral and emotional support. It’s very disappointing when we are fretting about something and you have nothing to say except, ‘huh’ indulge in the conversation it makes us feel loved and special.
3. Pamper us when we are sick
Please make us feel cared for when we are sick. We know that you are very concerned when you say, ‘take your medicines and go to sleep, I’ll handle everything else’ but that’s just not enough, we need your attention. Treat us like a little baby when we not well.
4. Help out in the house
Yes we know you have a job but we get tired of going through the same routine over and over again. Help us out around the house once a week; on weekends we really need a break!
5. Run errands
Help us run errands, don’t be selfish. Throw the trash out, pick up groceries, drop the children to school the list goes on. Just help us out a bit, trust me if you had to manage a job and a house you would appreciate us a whole lot more!
6. Surprise us
Some times, just some times, do something amazing andsurprise us. It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, it about the thought you put into bring a smile on our face.
7. Don’t lie
Sh*t on the bed sheet and tell us, we can live with that, but don’t lie. Not only is it extremely immoral to tell lies. It makes us question the status of our relationship with you. It makes us feel guilty fro not giving you enough space and damages the bond of trust we share with you, so don’t just don’t lie.
8. Share the load
Let us help you out, morally, financially and emotionally. Let us support you, there is no shame in asking your partner for help when you need it.
9. Don’t be a baby
You know you will always be our baby, but don’t be a baby all the time.
Most of the time, we need a man. A fully functional grown man, who can take his own decisions and has the strength to take initiative, you know we will always be there to spoil you.
10. Don’t think we are stupid
We are not stupid, just because we are women things are no different. Honestly, we deal with much more than you guys do. So respect us and our decisions.
You are heavy and it’s hard to wake you up once you are asleep and impossible to physically move you. We need ourteddy bear to hug us and make us feel protected every night. It’s the best feeling in the world.
12. Leave space on the bed
Leave some space in the bed for us, we exist too you know. Sometimes we seriously consider pushing you off the bed.
13. Don’t hurt our self-esteem
Just because you earn more than we do doesn’t mean you have the right to demean us. If you had to hire a maid for every thing we do for you, you’d be broke!
14. We may pretend to be superwomen but give us the benefit of doubt
Okay, so we are very strong and everything but remember, we are only human. We strive hard to meet your expectations but understand we have our off days and sometimes we fail.
15. Blame it on the hormones if we have a nervous breakdowns
We literally have no control over ourselves during that time of the month, so please bear with us. Pamper us; get us lots of food and chocolate! We promise to make it up to you, and love you better once our hormones are back to normal.
16. We like to snuggle more
Please be our snuggle bees for the rest of our lives because we have no idea what we’d do if we didn’t have you to comfort us.
17. Take interest in our clothing, we want to make you look good
It’s not about us, it’s about you. We want people to think that you have a million dollar wife, every time you go out with us. Praise us when we wear something new because we do it for you.
18. Screw the cap back on
Seriously, screw the lid back on, on everything. We don’t expect things to fall out of their bottles when we pick them up and if they do it’s very annoying.
19. Don’t turn the lights on when we are sleeping
Once our sleep is gone it’s not coming back, some one is going to have to give us company. Enough said
20. Pick that phone up!
We only call you when we want to talk about something important. Sometimes listening to your voice is very important. So pick up those calls!
21. Throw that worn-out boxer
Throw that dirty old boxer out. We can see literally see the elastic through the worn-out cloth.
22. We like foreplay
Saying that we like it is an understatement, we absolutely love it! Don’t make intimacy feel like a job! Just saying.
23. Tell your mom to not interfere so much
I do love her, but I cannot live my life the way she wants me too. I have my own preferences and ideals.
24. Don’t forget important dates
Remember our birthdays and anniversaries; it’s so upsetting when you fail to remember your own birthday.
This list will be different for every girl, but I am sure there are many things you guys can relate too. No matter what we love our men very much. You now know how we feel about certain things so look out for us the next time will you?